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Calm & Collected

Category: Motivation

Within Motivation, you get the nice jolt of energy based on raw experiences to get back into the game.

Make Success in Any Area a Byproduct

Imagine you wake up and get to work on a list of things which will 100% progress you towards a set outcome. Instead of only half trying, you give your all. Then imagine you did this daily. Make Success in Any Area a Byproduct Within weeks your life would be drastically better. Instead though you […]

There’s Always Something You Can Do In Any Situation

As I sit here writing this to you, I’m staying in an expensive hotel. To my right is a fountain and one of those cool sitting areas inside of a pool. The hotel is basically it’s own private resort. There was a time in my life (many times). Where I was down to my last […]

Did Money Make Me Happy?

I spent most of my 20’s broke. Working odd jobs and side hustles to make ends meet. Until in my mid 20’s I focused on freelancing. This allowed me to travel the world, retire my mom, and live the lifestyle I’ve documented on social media daily for years. So did money make me happy? I’m […]

My Story: Fast cars and Empty Trash Bags

Since being in Dubai, I’ve driven my dream cars. Lived in mansions. Stayed in penthouses. Yet I gotta come clean… Fast cars and Empty Trash Bags I spent 2 years of my life waking up at 2:30am. To start cleaning lots at 3am to 11am. Then come home and list items on Craigslist. Then sleep […]

My First Documentary on a Horse Adoption Sanctuary in Paraguay

I recently went to visit a Horse Adoption Sanctuary in Paraguay. It’s ran by Mirtha Ortigoza who uses her own money plus money other patrons send. What I saw there warmed my heart. My First Documentary on a Horse Adoption Sanctuary in Paraguay In Paraguay, it’s normal to abuse animals in certain regions. Especially dogs […]

5 Bad Habits to avoid in your 20’s

If you were to ask the majority of people that you come across in your daily life how you should spend your 20’s. You would find a procession of unremarkable people telling you that these are the years where you should have as much fun as you possibly can. Spend all of your money and […]

9 Years of Getting Out of My Head, Blogging, and Self-Expression

9 years ago I first started writing blog articles here. Blogging my thoughts helped me transform myself and reality in the process. My intention is for you to get some piece of inspiration to apply to your own life. On November 2014 I started my first blog. Back in those days, blogging was what social […]

Your brain is lying to you

Here’s how to tell it to shut up, and start empowering you. When we see a successful lifestyle, we put others on a pedestal. Thinking they have something we don’t.  Here’s the truth… This is based on me starting where you are…Then seeing behind the scenes and becoming a success myself. WHAT makes us see others […]

A Lesson I’ve Learned From Boxing

The world is designed to make you and I weak. Just because you pick a skill and generate income online doesn’t give you full protection either. I will explain more. Here’s a lesson I’ve learned from boxing. A Lesson I’ve Learned From Boxing You see, if I wanted to I could stay in my apartment […]

Why People Less Intelligent Than You Earn More

If you consider yourself at least average intelligence? I’ve got something to tell you. I have met IDIOTS who make more than most of you do from your salary. Why People Less Intelligent Than You Earn More I’m talking the kind of money you can walk away from a job, travel the world, and enjoy […]

Why your environment shapes you

What if I told you that you are more than the reflection you see in the mirror? You’d either call me crazy and quickly get off this article or you’ll think to yourself – “Wow! I knew there was more to life than what the elites have told me” And you keep reading… You see, […]

Beware of the Lady in the Red Dress

She seductively walks by you as you cross the street. Making eye contact and winking before she turns her head. Seconds earlier you were focused and on your way to the destination.  However, now your heart is pounding and your imagination begins spinning with different scenarios of you and her. The idea of where you were going […]

Bad Days Happen, Make em’ Count

How good are you on your bad day? This is a question a friend Andrew Tate asked me last year. I’d never thought about that before. Some days you’ll wake up and feel like everything is working out. Other days you will wake up and push aggressively. Feeling like the world is against you. You […]

You Will Find Your Way

You ever find yourself feeling like something’s wrong with you? Like why can’t you just enjoy your job and life? Well if you won’t admit it, I will… I spent years feeling like something was wrong with me. Every job I worked was great for a bit until I got bored or realized it would […]

The Will to Win Poem & Story

Years ago as I looked at my bank account, it was on $25. I was unemployed at the time and refused to go and work another job. In my mind it was “make my blog work and figure out how to make money until it took off” and that was the only reality I accepted. […]

Stop Walking Around Like a Zombie

Right now I’m writing this to you from Costa Rica. Everywhere I go, country to country all I see are dead-eyed zombies. Have you seen this as well? They have no light in their eyes. Walk slowly as if they don’t have anywhere to go. Mindlessly consuming whatever is on the screen in front of […]

3 Lessons I’ve Learned From 7 Years of Blogging

I started this blog back in November of 2014. While the ideas are constantly evolving, the theme has remained the same all of these years. In the last 7 years, Calm and Collected has produced tens of thousands of dollars for me. If you’re looking to start a blog? These 3 lessons will help you […]

How to Find the Time to Workout

Subject: How to Find the Time to Workout You’re busy making money, you’ve got commitments to handle, and then your gym is a car ride away. We’ve all been trained to find excuses. Just this morning I woke up at 7:45am. I scheduled the gym at my apartment for 8am to 9am. I had some […]

5 Ways to Become Financially Independent

In today’s episode of MoneyBag Radio, we’re covering 5 Ways to Become Financially Independent. 1) Live Below Your Means 2) Increase Your Income 3) Life Moves Fast, So Move Faster 4) Cook For Yourself 5) Discipline Yourself 5 ways to become financially independent This video is based on How to Become Financially Independent in Your […]

How to Control Your Mind in a World Full of Noise

Subject: How to Control Your Mind in a World Full of Noise Location: Rio De Janeiro, Brazil Ignore the noise. Focus. You don’t need to check social media every 30 seconds. You don’t need to know the latest update on world affairs. There is nothing going on. Get back to work. It’s only the work […]

How to Stop Procrastinating

Subject: How to Stop Procrastinating and Getting Your First Client When it comes to getting things done, our natural reaction is to procrastinate. However, there is a way to hack this. Allowing you to flip the switch to go from lazy to highly productive. It’s something I use daily to keep myself focused and progressing. […]

How to Stop Avoiding the Work and Get it Done

Subject: How to Stop Avoiding the Work and Get it Done? It’s 11:43 am as I type this article to you from a new cafe I found in Qatar. In a few days, I’ll either be on a plane to Dubai or on my way to the Amazons of South America. You see at this […]

The Difference Between You Now and Where You Want to Be?

Subject: The Difference Between You Now and Where You Want to Be? Right now you’re full of dreams, hopes, and desires. You think about them daily. Write about them. Obsessing over it. Yet when you look at your real life, it isn’t anywhere close to resembling your dreams. So you obsess some more, hope more, […]

8 Ways to Conquer Your Suicidal Thoughts

Subject: 8 Ways to Conquer Suicidal Thoughts There was a time when I actually considered killing myself. I was 22 years old. 260 pounds, in debt, and broke. I didn’t quite fit in with any 9-5, but also didn’t know anything about freelancing. From what everyone told me I needed to grow up. Otherwise, I’d […]

The Art of Focus – Entrepreneur Edition

Subject: The Art of Focus As someone who wants to make money online or is already earning, the ability to focus determines everything. The sooner you learn the Art of Focus, the sooner you will start getting tangible results. It took me years to learn the Art of Focus. Before this I’d bounce from task […]

How to Focus and Ignore the Noise

Subject: How to Focus and Ignore the Noise In today’s world, everyone is distracted by something. From notifications on their cell phone to the very thoughts in their own head. Learning how to focus is the key to staying sane and living a good life. For without it, you won’t ever do much of anything. […]

What’s Your Perfect Day Look Like?

Subject: What’s Your Perfect Day Look Like? Everyone lives, but not everyone lives their perfect day. Instead, it’s a mixture of half-conscious living and a whole lot of aimlessness. Meaning a large chunk of your life will be spent going through the motions instead of creating the motions. Now I’m not going to turn this […]

How to Escape the Purgatory of Your Life

Subject: How to Escape the Purgatory of Your Life You wake up every day to the same ole’ life you lived yesterday. Each day feels basically the same. It isn’t Hell and it isn’t Heaven. But you sure don’t feel alive. For years this is how I felt friend. I’d wake up at 5:45 am […]

The Lockdown Files: Best Content of 2020

Hello friend. I’ve been traveling all over the world for the last year. Much has been experienced and even more to share with you here. As of writing this I’m living in Qatar, with plans to head back to Romania here soon. This whole lockdown has made it hard to move around. Especially for Americans, […]

How I Went From Picking Up Trash to Running a Freelancing Business

Subject: How I Went From Picking Up Trash to Running a Freelancing Business I’m writing this to you from my apartment in Qatar. It’s been quite a year so far for me as I’m sure it has for you as well. Today’s article is more of an update from the last 2 years. New articles […]

How to Stop Being a Nice Guy and Start Getting What You Want

Subj: How to Stop Being a Nice Guy and Start Getting What You Want You’ve always been the guy everyone can depend on. Never asking for much in return, but always giving your all. Until one day you realize, you’re just a door mat. How to stop being a nice guy? By this point, you’ve realized […]

What Would You Do if You Were Given 6 Months to Live?

Subject: What Would You Do if You Were Given 6 Months to Live? Close your eyes and visualize you sitting across from a doctor. The doctor just informed you that you will die in 6 months. You accept the news and now have to accept the reality. You have 6 months to live. No medicine […]

The Dream is Free, But The Hustle is Sold Separately

You’ve got dreams of making money online, traveling the world, and doing what you want. The reality is my friend. The dream is free, but the hustle is sold separately. Like you, I used to sit in my room dreaming of running my own online business. On my way to work, I’d imagine what Romania […]

5 Years From Now: What Will You Be Doing?

5 years ago I sat there with a friend of mine at 2am. As the we looked up at the night sky I told him… I’m not living like this anymore. I know there’s more to life than this. Struggling to make money, procrastinating, and all this other bullshit. I am done. And to be […]

How to Finally Figure Out What You Want in Life

You’ve read article after article. Watched video after video. Yet you keep going from one idea to the next. Are you ready to decide what you really want? If so, keep reading. My journey towards self-actualization or what I call “waking up” began in 2013. I wasn’t sure what I wanted, I just knew there […]

The Dumb Truth About Reality

People go through their days hoping for better. Some even think they can visualize in their mind and like magic improve their life. Here is the dumb truth few realize. From the desk of Dylan Madden Location: Bucharest, Romania In the last article I wrote to you from a mansion. As I write this I […]

Self-Awareness for the Blind

You go through your day half aware. Putting your clothes on for work. Getting in the car and then going through your daily motions. What if I told you there was another way to live? Not just live, but truly manipulate reality.