You are tired of the same old everything. Your life seems to be in a constant repeat mode. Let me show you how you can change it easily.

Life On Repeat

Most people in this world live a boring life.

Everyday is the same.

Their life is on repeat.

Sadly they will never achieve anything worthwhile.

Here is how most people’s lives look like (Is this you?):

  • Same loser friends
  • Put up with a nagging girl
  • Wear the same clothes as they did last year
  • Have the same boring sex
  • Go to the same restaurants

That is just a small list of how most people’s lives look like.

You need to spice your life up.

If you want to become someone great then you must Take Action.

You have heard you must become the person that you want to be.

Well it is true.

It really does start with the Man in the Mirror.

What Causes People To Live On Repeat

People live life on repeat primarily due to lack of confidence.

If you aren’t seeing much improvement in your life, that is a sign you need to Upgrade Your Life.

As I said above lack of confidence is a big reason most people live their life on repeat.

Most people don’t have the confidence that is required to live how they want.

They can’t see their goals through to the end.

You must believe in yourself before anyone else will.

Just go ahead and accept that fact and start Taking Action.

How To Get Confidence So You Can Upgrade Your Life

It is much easier to get confidence than most “gurus” try to make it.

In my experience confidence is something that you will gain as you keep moving forward.

As you accomplish one thing and move on to the other your belief in yourself will rise.

When I first started Calm and Collected I had super low confidence.

It wasn’t until I kept moving forward and using the power of my Will that I started gaining confidence.

If you have low confidence I feel for you, I was in the same boat.


You must gain confidence if you are too become great.

Follow the following so that you can start increasing your confidence:

  • Start working out
  • Read books on subjects that will make you money or improve your mind
  • Create a business with Shopify
  • Start trying new things
  • Get involved with Calm and Collected

Now let’s move on to how you can Upgrade your life with 3 easy changes…….

How To Upgrade Your Life With 3 Easy Changes

Now that you have basic understanding of what we are talking about, let’s get into the fun stuff.

You can Upgrade your life easily and it doesn’t cost $500 or require you to move to a 3rd World country.

The 3 ways you can Upgrade your life are:

  • Change Up Your Style
  • Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone
  • Make Some Money

Change Up Your Style-

upgrade your life with style

Instead of going around with your same style, change it up.

Your style is something that is crucial for your success.


In life your image is important.

First impressions really do matter,

You could be Einstein smart, but if you dress like a slob you will not get into that job/school.

The way you dress is a indicator for how much you value yourself.

I didn’t take that seriously for years, but I now not only act like a Young Hustler but I dress like one too.

Take a look at how much of a difference just changing up a few things did to my style:

Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone-

Life is too short to stay in your comfort zone all of the time.

I know it might be scary, but you MUST do it if you want to excel in life.

Get up and go scuba diving.

Join that speaking class.

Create your website and help people.

Go to the gym and grunt while you put up 2 plates.

Who cares if you are loud?

Just go and do something new and you will see your confidence increase and your life improve.

Something that can take away the anxiety and help your focus is Red Monkey.

I use if for everything from writing articles to going out.

 Make Some Money-

upgrade your life by making money

Making money is a great way to Upgrade your life.

Money is more than just pieces of paper.

What money really is is Freedom.

When you have plenty of money in the bank you are able to do whatever you want.

You can tell people how you really feel.

You can take your Good Girl on a dream vacation.

People will respect you and go out of their way to please you.

Money is power.

With your money you can help improve your community and do great things.

There are plenty of ways to make money.

All you have to do is choose your way and then Take Action.

Here are some of my Money articles:

Just follow one of the above articles and get started.

Right now I am helping someone build their first Drop Ship store.

If they follow what I say they will be making $50-100/day in no time.


What I want you to take away from this post is that you don’t have to live your life on repeat.

You can choose to Upgrade your life and start living a great life.

It is really simple.

On another note I dropped my iPhone so that is why I haven’t been putting out consistent video’s.

Luckily the god’s smiled upon me and someone turned it into the store I lost it at.

We will talk again soon.

Your Friend,

Dylan Madden

PS: Check Out My YouTube Channel

About Dylan Madden

My name is Dylan Madden. I've written over 300+ articles for those who want more out of life and are interested in traveling the world. I am from US city where most people work the same old job for their entire life. Now after traveling to 18 countries. I've set up a home in Dubai where I spend my days helping freelancers build successful businesses within The Real World and on the blog Calm and Collected. Within this website you will find the motivation and action steps to make your life better.

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  4. Staying in your comfort zone is hell! Living the same boring life day in and day out is enough to drive a man mad!! I know because i too lived that way and it depresses me more and more until it was time for me to change. Once I made the change happen I was back to my positive self but we must always be vigilant because we can go right back to that hole if we are not careful.

    Great post D

    • You are right. Staying in your comfort zone is Hell. What inspired me to make that article was that I realized I had gotten too comfortable. I started losing the urgency to do certain things.

      Great comment.

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  6. Great content, thanks for putting out these articles!

    I changed my style 2.5 years ago and have never looked back again. Changing the style was hard because I thought my clothes needed to be “congruent” with my personality. My friend and fashion guide told me though that “congruence is overrated” and so I went with his advice. Took me two days to get used to boots, blazer, necklace and ring – that was it.

    Jumping out of our comfort zone seems like a big deal, but it really takes a couple of days getting used to, not more. It’s all in our head.

  7. I think getting our of your comfort zone is a really important part of changing and improving your life. I’ve been writing a bit about this myself. There are so many people who never get out of their comfort zone – they just do the same things day in, day out.

    It’s the chosen few, the 5-percenters who take action and experience more. The trick for us is to keep doing it and not turn into a Comfortable Clive.

    • Great comment Neil!

      It is very easy for people to get stuck doing the same thing every single day. Getting out of your comfort zone is a very easy way to upgrade your life.

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