**Straight forward, No Bullshit, and Dominate.**

Why what I want comes first and everything else comes second:

I do what I want because I only have a limited time here on this earth and would much rather be doing what I want than what someone else wants to do.  Doing what another person wanted would waste my precious time.

Of course there are times where I must compromise, but I decide to compromise which is still me getting what I want.

Continued….

We all live these cookie cutter lives where we conform and are essentially like everyone else around us. For people my age this is what life looks like to most:

• Go to college
• Work a part-time or full-time job
• Get drunk every weekend
• Party
• Do drugs such as smoke weed
• Bang girls (Nothing wrong with it if that is what you want)
• Go around not knowing what they want to do in life
• Get involved with meaningless drama

I don’t know about you, but that is not how I want my life to be like which is why I only do what I want to do.  My life looks like the following:

• Workout
• Blog
• E-Commerce
• Hangout with real friends and have real conversations
• I choose to have one girlfriend who is loyal beyond question to me
• Do Personal Development
• Study
• Travel when I get the desire to

-My life choices aren’t any better than yours they are simply what I choose to do. You can do whatever you want to do I am just showing you from my perspective.-

I am not at the point financially where I can just decide to go to Amsterdam for the weekend with the snap of my fingers. I have to plan it just like you guys. The only difference is if I decide I want something I make it happen because I don’t fear the unknown.

As a child growing up and into my teens I would put other people’s desires in front of mine 9 times out of 10. I thought that by me doing that I was being a good person and being humble.

Not My Picture

All I can do is laugh at that old version of myself. I missed out on a lot of things simply because I was such a beta and didn’t have the balls to say what I wanted. Once I got out of High School my rose colored lenses fell off and I realized that in this world you must take what you want because everyone else is trying to get theirs.

Conclusion:

Take what you want and do not ever be afraid of stepping on someone else to get it. There are a few rules that I follow when it comes to getting what I want.

1. I don’t harm someone else (Unless they harm me)
2. I have integrity
3. I am truthful and honest
4. I get what I want

Your friend in success,

Dylan Madden

PS:

Check out some pictures that will be on the next post:

A friend of mine and myself enjoying some breakfast going over plans for 2015.