Why what I want comes first and everything else comes second:
I do what I want because I only have a limited time here on this earth and would much rather be doing what I want than what someone else wants to do. Doing what another person wanted would waste my precious time.
Of course there are times where I must compromise, but I decide to compromise which is still me getting what I want.
We all live these cookie cutter lives where we conform and are essentially like everyone else around us. For people my age this is what life looks like to most:
Go to college
Work a part-time or full-time job
Get drunk every weekend
Do drugs such as smoke weed
Bang girls (Nothing wrong with it if that is what you want)
Go around not knowing what they want to do in life
Get involved with meaningless drama
I don’t know about you, but that is not how I want my life to be like which is why I only do what I want to do. My life looks like the following:
Hangout with real friends and have real conversations
I choose to have one girlfriend who is loyal beyond question to me
Do Personal Development
Travel when I get the desire to
-My life choices aren’t any better than yours they are simply what I choose to do. You can do whatever you want to do I am just showing you from my perspective.-
I am not at the point financially where I can just decide to go to Amsterdam for the weekend with the snap of my fingers. I have to plan it just like you guys. The only difference is if I decide I want something I make it happen because I don’t fear the unknown.
As a child growing up and into my teens I would put other people’s desires in front of mine 9 times out of 10. I thought that by me doing that I was being a good person and being humble.
Not My Picture
All I can do is laugh at that old version of myself. I missed out on a lot of things simply because I was such a beta and didn’t have the balls to say what I wanted. Once I got out of High School my rose colored lenses fell off and I realized that in this world you must take what you want because everyone else is trying to get theirs.
Take what you want and do not ever be afraid of stepping on someone else to get it. There are a few rules that I follow when it comes to getting what I want.
I don’t harm someone else (Unless they harm me)
I have integrity
I am truthful and honest
I get what I want
Your friend in success,
Check out some pictures that will be on the next post:
A friend of mine and myself enjoying some breakfast going over plans for 2015.